Friday, August 26, 2011

She Was Happy With Him Back Then


She looks so Happy
It was 2004 and she married him.  She was living the good life with this Fireman.  I remember she called me and said, "Ma, I am married to the most wonderful man."  I was happy for her even though I barely met the man one month before she married him.  I always go with my gut instinct.  Like when I walk into a room full of people I can feel the vibe if it's negative or positive.  Well, when I met Jeannette's husband he came across as self centered and hot tempered.  I noticed how he had no patience for my two grandchildren that were not his.  Once he married my daughter he moved her out of Fresno and away from me.  That there told me this guy might be controlling. 
Several instances happened during the coarse of their marriage to make me confirm my suspicions.  I could go on and on about this person but I am choosing to not write about him because it is not in my best interest and health to open up these wounds regarding his treatment of my dying daughter.  When I see this picture of her and how she is wearing his firefighter helmet I feel like crying.  I cry for her not knowing the truth about him before she married him.  Most of the population in this Nation of ours seem to think that all Firefighters are heroes and I am a first hand witness that there are some that are rotten to the core.  They hide all their devious ways from their fellow workers, their family, their relatives, etc.  I know that if Jeannette had it to do over again, she would not have married him.  She would have found the love of her life.  In my dreams I see her happy and with a loving man at her side.  When I wake up, reality sits in and I am here writing about this monster.  O.K. I am done for now. 

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